Hey D.,

First off, welcome to the boards. I'm so glad to see you here.
Second, my title to this post is perhaps going to be a bit off as I don't have much time for a reply right now, but I did want to touch on something.
I fully believe in evangelism and 'giving the word'. It's one of our greatest duties as Christians to share our faith. On yesterday's show, Brian Godawa used an analogy of a pauper in the gutter. He said we're just another pauper in the gutter. We should go to someone and say, "I want to share something with you that has helped me. I think it has done well for me and just want to share it."
But instead, we go in with, "Here's the reason you're so dirty. You need this and this and this. Without this, you're life will be miserable." We forget that we're still just a pauper in the gutter, thinking that with Jesus, our lives are perfect. We still have the same problems as everyone else. The difference is in 'the following life'. Another 'pauper will be put off if you go trying to act like you've got it so much better when they can clearly see you're no different, especially if they aren't asking you about the 'hope that you have' (1 Peter 3:15).
For Tim and I, it's a matter of attitude. I think the reason many are 'sick of hearing abut God' is that many try to shove it on others. If Christ gave us the free gift of Salvation, he also meant for it to be willingly accepted. Or, willingly rejected, for that matter. I don't think we give people a choice. We are like slick marketers and sales men trying to hock off something that's free in the first place. We cheapen something of great value, all because we try to push it on to everyone.
But, if we do it in love, which will take some time due to the reputation we've built up for fighting and arguing (which has it's place at times), than i think we will see more people 'come in to the fold'.
Anyway, I need to head out, but maybe later I can give a more 'definition' type answer to the terms 'Evangelism' and 'Evangelicalism'. They are vastly different.
Again, thanks for joining us here. I'm mailing your copy of the book out today.
Aloha!